I switched off a few days back, life has got more serious, I am back in the world of work and suddenly the blog thing was feeling a bit frivolous and out of step with life back at a corporate pace.
But then I received some emails, an especially lovely one from Darla in Tennessee and a request to reconsider from the strangest of places, my husband, who I always thought had considered this blogging malarkey a bit of a joke. He travels a lot with work and perhaps quite likes the inane wittering of my posts and the pertinent and thoughtful comments that I am lucky enough to get from people who come for a chat.
And so I am back, I am working a few days a week on the corporate side of a big fashion company, so the dress code is a nightmare, really fashionable and very smart would be the order of the day, but as anyone who has read about my shopping habits knows, I am an avid Ebayer and practical dresser (wedding dresses aside). I haven't bought 'cool corporate' since 1992. And my wardrobe is evidence of that.
I found a selection that might work as a collection to take to London for the first few days
The first outfit was a disaster, it was quite an expensive 'treat' I bought it to help out a new designer, Hamish something, I can't remember the surname, the top and trousers are cashmere, the trousers are cut between the butt cheeks to lift and enhance, fine when I was a size smaller, pretty obscene when they are a size too small. The top is a-symetric and has a huge moth hole in the front, straight in the bin with the top and trousers back to the 'size smaller' pile...
One of my staple Coast skirts, an old reliable and Nichole Fahri jumper (more moth holes) I love the shape too much to throw it away, but it is on the country weekends pile.
This dress is quite a special one, it was given to me a few years ago, again I am hopeless at names I can't remember who designed it, but it won dress of the year at London Fashion week, it is meant to be a reverse skeleton with the vertebrae down the front. It isn't a great look on me as I always feel too broad for it, but it was given to me by lovely friends so I have always kept it. This could be a contender, but I need different footwear.
This Stella MacCartney dress is a great shape, and the only one that has ever given me a waist, except, I can't wear a bra with it, not sure that gives the right impression for the first day.
Uh oh, I look like some strange Muppet human hybrid, this is a big NO....
And so I went shopping and bought some new clothes (and visited the hairdresser!)....
Skirt Club Monaco (new on Westbourne Grove, has it relaunched? I seem to remember from the 80s, but the new shop and collection is fab, perfect smart/cool kit) Jumper is Vanessa Bruno, it's just a jumper, but why is it that it fits in a way that gives me shape without clinging? Necklace a splurge from J Crew (newly opened on Brompton Cross). Boots are classics from Hermes that I have had for years, they were bought in the sale for about £175, and on a cost per wear basis have to be cheaper than any of my £0.99 bargains from Ebay.
Tan courtesy of St Barts (the bottle not the place) may be next year!
I definitely haven't 'cracked it', but it's a lot better than my earlier attempts.
What are your secrets for foolproof fashion meets serious business person dressing?
I hope you have time to continue the blog. I always enjoy it, despite my weak show of comments. Like you, real life takes me away for big chunks of time, and then I remember to check things out! I'd love to know what you recommend packing for our April trip to the U.K. The new job sounds really exciting!
ReplyDeleteI can be of great help if you head for the Cotswolds (Barbour, Dubarry boots), but for town, I am still lost. Do email if you come to London, if my teenager is around we can go somewhere nice for afternoon tea. I'm always dragging him along with me, and to have someone his own age to talk to would be a novelty!
DeleteI love the last look Alexandra but agree with you on the others. Although it has been 13 years since I worked in a city office I don't think a lot has changed. Maybe get a suit that you can mix and match the trousers and jacket, a couple of good shirts and blouses (which I am sure you already have) along with the skirt and jumper you have on above and maybe a classic black shift dress that could be worn under various jackets, leather biker, red or camel blazer to create lots of different looks? Good luck btw I can't imagine going back into that world but would love to dress smartly for work, a corporate look always excites me and the capsule wardrobe it requires x
ReplyDeleteThis is my problem, I look a bit 'Miss Trunchbull' in regular 'smart' clothes, and the rest of the office are in jeans and trainers, so I need to be somewhere in the middle, which is the trick place to be!
DeleteLove the designer piece you bought to help "Hamish something" ;-)
ReplyDeleteI do like the pieces you bought.
I have been a "corporate refugee" since 2000 and even worse spend half my time living in Spain, so I wouldn't know where to start to go back to corporate fashion. I don't think I've worn tights for more than 10 years!
The novelty of it 'mattering' wore off after the first 2 days. I thought that I missed having to 'think' about clothes, but I really didn't, truth be told, I always loved my school uniform (even in the sixth form when everyone else was rebelling). I liked that we all looked the same and there was no decision to be made.
DeleteO Im so glad to see this, it said that your blog was by invitation only so I thought that I had not been invited and felt sad. Please keep writing. One of the best, real blogs around.
ReplyDeleteThank you so much, that is so kind of you. I am not sure how I removed it, I just made everything private so I guess that is why you got that message, Sorry! I won't do it again!
DeleteWow that's a difficult dress code isn't it. Love the jumper and statement necklace. To be honest half the time it's about confidence, if you can walk and talk as if you mean business, you automatically look good!!! I've seen women with just a pair of black trousers and a white shirt who ooze confidence just by turning up the collar and strutting around the place lol. Good to see you back xx
ReplyDeleteThat's so true, I am a coward, I also have a vision of turning up to meetings and literally seeing people's faces drop, 'You're in fashion, it's a job anyone would kill for and that's REALLY all you can do!'
DeleteYou know, I love the muppet human hybrid most of all, but the last one is perfect for a professional environment. If you can squeeze the odd post in between work then please do, I really like your blog, it's an original,
ReplyDeleteThat's really kind, I'll stick around if you will!
DeleteOh i was pleased to see this post - i too enjoy your posts but never seem to have time for my own - somewhat hypocritical - but hey! I love you in the stella dress but the bra thing is a complete no-no - and i think you nailed it in the last - so pleased to hear club monaco are open in westbourne grove they had a concession in browns for a year or so about 3 years ago and i find them fab for basics with more at a good px. When it comes to work it is really finding a look you feel good, comfortable and you in - i love a mans style shirt slightly oversized but flatteringly so with either a pencil skirt and a super sexy but walkable pointy pump or a good easy fit tapered trsr you can tuck in a knee length boot - trench on top. On me flattering and easy yet feminine - love the slight menswear influence - enjoy your new chapter in life x
ReplyDeleteI think you may have just justified my Valentino rock stud obsession, I have been stalking the collection for years and I can now more or less go for a guilt-free purchase!
DeleteWelcome back. I just love your blog... Long time lurker
ReplyDeleteBonnie
Hi Bonnnie
DeleteIt's nice to hear from you, please comment again, it's a nice crowd who hangs here and the comments are way more intelligent and interesting than the posts!!
Glad you are going to continue to blog as we've only just "met." I've not had a corporate gig in a decade (and then as a dowdy banker) so I'm useless. But working on the corporate side of fashion sounds like an excellent opportunity for you to experiment!
ReplyDeleteUnfortunately it doesn't pay very well and these designer clothes don't have a huge mark up, so there are no bargains to be had. I think my fashion out-goings could be a little higher than my salary!
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